Have you noticed that you go around and around with certain issues in your life? That you have an area you keep working on? It gets better, it gets worse . . . but it won’t go away. This may be one of your life themes – one of the areas you agreed to explore during this lifetime.
I have interviewed several psychics, and spoken with many people, who have married multiple times. The psychics tell me that there is a reason for these marriages. They knew they were destined to marry someone for the lessons they both needed to explore, even if they knew the marriages wouldn’t last.
The multi-married people who were not psychics have told me that they didn’t understand why they had to find love, then lose it. They didn’t know why husbands cheated on them, or abandoned them, or died. The reason may be that whether they were aware if it or not, they were exploring a life theme of love. These folks were looking at love from all sides: finding it, losing it, enjoying it, basking in it. After a love loss, they felt the emotional devastation.
People examined love from the standpoint of life partners. They also looked at love for parents, from parents, for children, from children, and for pets and from pets. Yes, animals were part of the exploration.
One woman told me that she couldn’t understand why she had married five times. She loved each of these men and couldn’t comprehend why none of the marriages had worked out for a lifetime. I suggested that she was exploring love from all angles: falling in love, falling out of love, “settling.” Maybe there was a marriage of convenience for one partner or the other? Maybe friendships grew into love, but weren’t completely locked in? Maybe Karma was involved? I didn’t know why these things had happened, but I saw how much she had learned about love, and about herself, along the way. I suggested that she list all the people and animals she had loved and lost (and kept) so she could see how this theme played out in her life.
Love. Lack of love. Proving one can thrive without love (can they?).
Other people have different themes. Some people explore money and financial security. They make a lot of money. They lose a lot of money. They scrimp and save; they splurge and reward. They explore the magic of money from all angles. In some cases, they look at the power related to having money and not having money.
Power is another prominent life theme. Gaining power, losing power. All facets and vibrations of power. People who are working on this issue get see how they react to each of these situations. Do they keep growing emotionally? Do they get stuck? Do they use their power for good or for evil?
Creativity might be a life theme. Creating . . . hopes rise. Then nothing happens . . . hopes dashed. Keep creating? Probably. Creative people keep creating. They continue to explore the emotional depths of creative flow, the joy of acceptance when they succeed, and the despair when they feel they are not succeeding.
More life themes? Self esteem. Wellness and illness. Adventure. Risk-taking. Work/family balance. Caregiving vs. making themselves a priority. With the caregiver theme, someone could list the number of people who have shown up in their life needing care.
You may not see your life theme clearly, but if you look at your friends and relatives, you can see the topic they are exploring. You can see the patterns they repeat. You probably have a dominant life theme too.
You can’t do everything at once, but you can focus on a theme for a lifetime, or for several lifetimes. That’s the theory. If you don’t do it all in one lifetime and you feel there is more to explore, you can come back and keep studying the subject. Perhaps you are poor in one lifetime and rich in another. You see abundance from all sides. You extend your understanding. Your Higher Self catalogues those experiences so that as you travel from lifetime to lifetime, your knowledge builds. This is growth.
What do you think you are exploring this lifetime? Let me know by sending an e-mail to gail@MyPsychicSearch.com, or by commenting below.
Gail
P.S. In my first draft, I wrote "angels" instead of "angles." Maybe they are related?
I have interviewed several psychics, and spoken with many people, who have married multiple times. The psychics tell me that there is a reason for these marriages. They knew they were destined to marry someone for the lessons they both needed to explore, even if they knew the marriages wouldn’t last.
The multi-married people who were not psychics have told me that they didn’t understand why they had to find love, then lose it. They didn’t know why husbands cheated on them, or abandoned them, or died. The reason may be that whether they were aware if it or not, they were exploring a life theme of love. These folks were looking at love from all sides: finding it, losing it, enjoying it, basking in it. After a love loss, they felt the emotional devastation.
People examined love from the standpoint of life partners. They also looked at love for parents, from parents, for children, from children, and for pets and from pets. Yes, animals were part of the exploration.
One woman told me that she couldn’t understand why she had married five times. She loved each of these men and couldn’t comprehend why none of the marriages had worked out for a lifetime. I suggested that she was exploring love from all angles: falling in love, falling out of love, “settling.” Maybe there was a marriage of convenience for one partner or the other? Maybe friendships grew into love, but weren’t completely locked in? Maybe Karma was involved? I didn’t know why these things had happened, but I saw how much she had learned about love, and about herself, along the way. I suggested that she list all the people and animals she had loved and lost (and kept) so she could see how this theme played out in her life.
Love. Lack of love. Proving one can thrive without love (can they?).
Other people have different themes. Some people explore money and financial security. They make a lot of money. They lose a lot of money. They scrimp and save; they splurge and reward. They explore the magic of money from all angles. In some cases, they look at the power related to having money and not having money.
Power is another prominent life theme. Gaining power, losing power. All facets and vibrations of power. People who are working on this issue get see how they react to each of these situations. Do they keep growing emotionally? Do they get stuck? Do they use their power for good or for evil?
Creativity might be a life theme. Creating . . . hopes rise. Then nothing happens . . . hopes dashed. Keep creating? Probably. Creative people keep creating. They continue to explore the emotional depths of creative flow, the joy of acceptance when they succeed, and the despair when they feel they are not succeeding.
More life themes? Self esteem. Wellness and illness. Adventure. Risk-taking. Work/family balance. Caregiving vs. making themselves a priority. With the caregiver theme, someone could list the number of people who have shown up in their life needing care.
You may not see your life theme clearly, but if you look at your friends and relatives, you can see the topic they are exploring. You can see the patterns they repeat. You probably have a dominant life theme too.
You can’t do everything at once, but you can focus on a theme for a lifetime, or for several lifetimes. That’s the theory. If you don’t do it all in one lifetime and you feel there is more to explore, you can come back and keep studying the subject. Perhaps you are poor in one lifetime and rich in another. You see abundance from all sides. You extend your understanding. Your Higher Self catalogues those experiences so that as you travel from lifetime to lifetime, your knowledge builds. This is growth.
What do you think you are exploring this lifetime? Let me know by sending an e-mail to gail@MyPsychicSearch.com, or by commenting below.
Gail
P.S. In my first draft, I wrote "angels" instead of "angles." Maybe they are related?
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