How? Why?
My spiritual friends and I bandied this topic about a few weeks ago. We wondered how we could love “bad” people. We wondered why we should love the people who infuriate us.
We know that we come into this life with a list of things we want to experience. On The Other Side, it seems like a good idea to experience love, hate, adventure, boredom, challenges, etc. Could we do all of this if life was only the good stuff? People treating each other kindly and with respect? Probably not. We need antagonists and conflict to find out if we can stand up for ourselves. We need challenges to see if can surmount them.
The trick to loving everyone is to look at things from a higher perspective. We can imagine that we are all actors in a stage play on Earth. Everyone chooses a different part in the play so that there is a full drama. Without villains and opponents, it would be a pretty lackluster story.
We have to realize that individual souls are not the same as the characters they choose to play on Earth. They are like actors who create a character for certain experiences. The individual we are loving is the soul/actor, not the character they are playing on stage.
Everybody picks a different role, depending upon the drama they want to experience. It doesn't make them a bad person. The actor is not the role they are playing.
In any story, you love the hero and you hate the villain, and you realize that these are roles played by actors.
Think of the people you don’t like. Think of your competitors. Think of the nasty things they have said. Does your blood boil?
On Earth, when we are in the thick of the drama, it can be difficult to remember that we are souls who are visiting Earth for a lifetime of experience. If we can pull ourselves back and take a higher perspective, we can allow the idea of “loving everyone no matter what they are doing” to enter our consciousness.
Also keep in mind that just because we know we are supposed to love someone, doesn’t mean we have to like them. Loving people and liking people are two separate issues. You can love the core of someone without liking what they do.
We are all connected through energy and, somehow, our adversaries are a part of us. When we hate them, we hurt ourselves. Instead, we can think of them as teachers who help us learn lessons.
Personally, I try not to hate anyone. Instead, I wish them enlightenment. I wish they would have an experience that helps them understand that it’s okay to be kind to people. I don't wish anyone harm, but that doesn’t mean I want to love them.
One of our group members commented that it was not a matter not liking, or disliking, someone. It was realizing that you can love the core of who they are, regardless of what they are doing. You don't have to like them, or participate in their drama, but having ill feelings towards their core being ties you to them through emotion.
I understand this philosophically. I can see the higher perspective. I’ve got it. I also know that when somebody is a pain in the butt or when I am faced with evil, it can be tough to keep this in mind. So, there’s the challenge: remembering to love the soul without being distracted by the role they are playing in your life.
Onward and upward.
Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com
P.S. A big thank you to my group of friends who explored this topic. Wonderful insights.