Quote from a Psychic - How did you know you were psychic?

Laurie Hays answered:

“I was about 13 years old when I could close my eyes and see things. I told my mom and she shushed me and told me that everyone could do that. We were raised Catholic and it was not something which was discussed. However, she must have had her own impressions because my Dad used to call her a witch. She would say, ‘I have to sleep on things.’ She was the witch and I was the little witch. My other sister wasn’t called a witch. My mother wouldn’t talk about this at all. As a matter-of-fact, she told me that reading Tarot Cards and reading horoscopes meant you would burn in Hell. This is how I was raised: ‘Just read the Bible.’

“To this day, members of my family ridicule me for being a psychic. To this day, my sister says I will be the nicest person burning in Hell.”

"I didn’t have a mentor at home. The first mentor I had was when I was 26 or 27 and going through a divorce. Reverend Julie Anne Kreig was an amazing mentor. I went to her for a reading and she said, 'You can do this as well as I can.' I told her that I was afraid of it because I didn’t know the rules and the laws. I knew it was powerful, but I didn’t know how it worked.  She offered to teach me. I respected her so much because she was very normal. I would tell her what I saw and she would help me to understand what it meant. I am very visual and I have a very creative imagination. I feel through my imagination. I receive pictures through my imagination. "

Happy Birthday, Laurie!

Healing memories. We all face challenges in life. It is possible to live through these challenges and heal whatever the underlying issue might be. Recently, I received a message that I was healing an issue from my childhood. The message felt right. It felt good.

As a child and as a young adult, I did not have much family support for my ideas or choices. I lived in a home with much yelling. I had some good childhood memories, but I also had a lot of bad ones. I couldn't live that way so, when I was old enough, I left. I struck out on my own. With my independence, I made all choices myself and, honestly, I’m pretty happy with how things turned out.

Earlier this month, I received this message through a psychic:   

“You came to heal memories -- the memories that you were so desirous to have in your life which were not there. If there is one thing that you have given your family, it is memories. Memories of the heart, of holidays, of tradition, of ceremony. You have gifted them what you wished you had in your life and, therefore, healed those precious memories for generations to come. Kudos.”

This message was relayed to me after my daughter’s wedding. I had wanted to support my daughter in having the wedding she wanted. I did my best to make it special for her. On the contrary, my mother had criticized my wedding choices and made the event more stressful than it needed to be. Using the two weddings as examples, I can see evidence that this issue is healing.

I am giving my children the kinds of fun, heartfelt memories which I wish I had received from my family. I can't control how they feel about these memories. I can only do my part.

I think “Healing Memories” has also manifested itself in my love of photography and journaling. I record my memories in pictures and words to anchor them into my consciousness.

That’s my story.

Each person has their own issues to heal. One of my friends is healing a feeling of loneliness and lack from her childhood. The healing manifests as a household full of children, grandchildren, and pets. There’s no lack of companionship in her current household.

Another person might be healing a feeling of lack of emotional support. In one case, this healing required the development of empathy, along with the wisdom to turn the empathy into emotional support for other people. This woman healed emotionally so that she could be a specialist in healing, on the emotional level, for those who need it. She is a cheerleader for others.

We all have issues we are working on. If you are having a hard time identifying your issues, finding your path to healing, or realizing how far you have come, talking to a psychic can be valuable. Through the years, I have had many psychic consultations which have helped me see the ebb and flow of life.

It’s funny. As we get older, we see how the pieces of our lives come together. The whole picture can be quite beautiful.

Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com

Every year, I compile, print, and assemble a book of the previous year's blogs. The "2020 Blog Book" has been printed! If anyone wants a copy of the book so that they can read the blogs in chronological order, please let me know. The book will cost $25.

At a recent channeling event, Spirit shared insights on the afterlife. Here are a couple of questions from the audience, along with answers:

First person: When someone commits suicide, or ends up dead, surprised, like in an auto accident, they get help. What kind of help is given? What does it consist of?

Spirit: Help comes from both sides. It can take a soul a while to open themselves to the reality of their passing. Sometimes, they have to accept their own passing before they can truly, truly, accept help. The love that you send is part of the process of breaking down their resistance to accepting their passing.

Love can break down those walls. It comes from us and it comes from those on The Other Side, if we remember to send it.

Second person: Do those on The Other Side feel the same kind of love that they felt here on Earth? Is it different? Do they have different feelings? Do they have feelings?

Spirit: Everybody experiences their own death differently. I can’t say there is one way that it happens although, eventually, at some point in time, what I speak of will come true for everybody.

On The Other Side, they literally live in love. They are surrounded by love. They breathe it, although they don’t breathe in the way that we do on a physical level. They literally live in the surrounding love of the Divine. Some of us have glimpses on this side of what it is like to live in love. Some of us have evolved ourselves to the point where we can truly love ourselves; where we can truly love those around us. Most of us would not describe how we live on this Earth as living in love. Many, many, many on The Other Side, truly live in love.

Those on The Other Side who desire to do so, can evolve to the point where they can accept the absolutely infinite amount of love of the Divine on The Other Side. When I speak of the love of the Divine on The Other Side, I do not speak just of a love coming from outside of each individual’s soul. I talk about the love that is in, and expands from, the love of each individual soul and in that process, the division between us gets less and less and less, until there is only love.

Third person: It sounds so wonderful. Why would we leave and come to Earth?

Spirit: Many reasons. We come to Earth to learn. We come to Earth to teach. We come to Earth to play. There are sensory things on Earth that I don’t want to say aren’t available on The Other Side, but can be experienced on the lower level of vibration that we have here on Earth. We can taste chocolate. We can have sex. We can run. We can breathe the air. We can give love and understanding, and help people grow.

In addition, some people come to Earth to be of service to others in their own evolution.  

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I thought this was a fascinating discussion. I hoped you enjoyed this glimpse into a session of channeled ideas.

Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com

Back in high school, a history teacher overheard me saying that I loved something inanimate. A book? A teddy bear? A photo? I don’t remember what it was. This man told me that love was only for living things. He said it wasn’t possible to love an inanimate object.

I think he’s incorrect. I thought so then, and I still think so now.

Love comes from us. It wells up in us. It encompasses an appreciation for the object of our affection. We can love a painting, a musical interlude, and everything else.

We can also love people, animals, and plants – all living things. Sometimes the feeling is reciprocal. Sometimes it is part of our admiration for the beauty of an item.

Limiting the definition of “love,” limits our total joy in all the world has to offer.

Expanding our understanding of “love” can light up our world.

I had a dream the other night about The Great Potential of People and Places. In that dream, I was a college freshman, sitting in the cafeteria, looking over the sea of other freshmen who didn’t know who they were or who they wanted to be. Over four years, they would read books which they either loved or hated. They would follow the ideas in the books they loved. They would discard any parts which didn’t inspire them. At the end of four years, they would move towards careers. There was much potential to go one way or another. It was heartwarming. It was heart-breaking. It was unrealized potential morphing into something solid. Life tugging people in one direction or another.

We all come into life that way. Full of potential. We have likes and dislikes, clues, talents, a desire to try something. At the end of our lives, we know how things turned out. We see what had amused us, what had bored us, and what had disgusted us. At the end, we will recall what we did and what we didn’t do. We will see how our potential had developed into a life.

Along the way, we choose careers and life partners. We decide whether or not to have children. These are big life choices. We also see how we react to daily life and to challenges. Some choices may not look like “big ones,” but our daily lives are our lives.

If we have choices, we are lucky. Some people are born into limited circumstances. Some societies and religions are highly restrictive. Some financial situations keep people constrained. Each person lives a completely unique life on Earth and each of our incarnations on Earth are unique to us. We can sample whatever circumstances we are interested in experiencing.

This brings me back to this idea of potential. As I mentioned last week, our family threw a wedding for one of our daughters. It was a beautiful event. At the beginning of the planning process, I didn’t know if I could do this kind of thing. It took a lot of forethought. While I didn’t do all the work, it was a group effort, I did most of the planning. I used to be able to tackle big projects, but it had been a while since I had tried something so complex.

In the end, I felt very blessed to have been able to rise to the occasion and make this happen. I felt like I had support from everyone who was thinking about the wedding on This Side and I felt like I had support from those on The Other Side who inspired  ideas and smoothed out the process so things fell into place. I am very grateful to all of the souls who helped create this event.

I am also very grateful to my house. I often think that our house is not living up to its potential: we need better furniture, we need an upgraded kitchen, etc. On the wedding day, our house looked great. It was decorated and shiny. I felt like we had helped it fulfill its destiny.  This may sound funny, but it’s how I feel. Inanimate objects rising to their potential? Fulfilling their destiny? Yes.

Sometimes, we think about how we live in an energetic universe, and sometimes we have to move beyond “thinking” and use our hands to manifest our dreams. It is my sincere wish that we all live up to our potential.

I want to thank all of you who sent good vibes and blessings to the bride and groom. Your kindness warmed my heart.

Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com

Quote from a Channeled Message - Grand Life Pattern

“After passing, as you take your experiences from this side and mix them with experiences from other [past] lives, you see a grand pattern of where your soul is striving to go, what it is striving to learn, and what it is striving to let go. A lot of growth has to do with letting go.”