We are not in charge of every aspect of every situation in our lives. Maybe in the “big picture” we choose certain experiences, but when we live in human form, we deal with life’s minutia.
Over the course of three channeling sessions, spirit gave us hints on dealing with unpleasant situations by “allowing.”
One person in the group was living in a household of people where no one wanted to do the dishes. Dirty dishes were stacking up and she was becoming aggravated with the person who was supposed to wash them. She asked how to handle this situation. Did she need to do the dishes? If so, the responsible party would never learn responsibility. Did she need to speak up? Should she try to be patient as she watched the mess grow? Spirit told her to “allow” everyone to move at their own pace. Whomever’s responsibility it was, would get tired of dirty dish piles. The longer they sat, the more dishes accumulated. She was reminded that the dishes were not her responsibility and that if she took on that responsibility, she would end up exhausted.
Another participant was taking on a new role at work. She would have to deal with all kinds of people, many of whom had ideas which she didn’t think would work well.
Spirit advised:
“‘Allow all things.’ If you're in this new endeavor and you run into people who have different ideas, you can allow all things. Give it a try. Give them permission to do what they want to do, in the way they want to do it. That may not be sustainable, but as you allow all things, you have no worries. That's the way of peace.”
A few months later, the group gathered again. Members were still working through the idea of “allowing.”
The woman with the dish issue provided this update:
“I have been using the word, ‘allow.’ I allow them to figure it out. Allowing everyone to be on their own path in their own time frame. I had to lower my standards on cleanliness. It’s helping me.”
Another woman had used the word, “allow” when she had run into people at work who had tried her patience. No results yet.
A third woman reported that she had hired the heavens. She can see her project’s outcome, but she is leaving the “how” and the “when” up to Spirit. She realized she couldn’t control the project's workmen.
A fourth woman had found that when she started a project and accomplished as much as she could do in the physical realm, the non-physical things began happening too. She had found a way to start projects and allow Spirit to help complete them.
Was this “allowing” working out? Are we supposed to roll over and allow people to do whatever they want? Then bite our tongues, allow things to happen, and develop ulcers?
No.
We asked Spirit for additional advice and this came through:
“Yes, you ‘allow.’ But allowing does not mean you are overcome or enveloped. Allowing means you allow your divine spiritual essence to come through, to reign, to illumine, to guide you. To empower you to feel victorious, to feel successful, to feel in divine order at all times.
“When you are at that vibration, things cannot help but come together. When you stop yourself in the manifestation process because “It will take energy,” “I’ll wait until I have the money,” “When things show up,” you are doubting and not riding the flow of energy.”
“Allowing” works when we have the highest end goal in mind, we just don’t know how things will work out. Then we add, “And steps that I may not even be aware of, are handled and taken care of.” This allows Spirit to add new, even better dimensions to any project. It's the same process we use for manifestation.
At a third channeling session, we still struggled to allow and to be satisfied with the outcome. Spirit clarified:
“The part which has been challenging for the allowing situation is that there needs to be faith that, ‘If I allow, it will work out’ vs. ‘If I allow, I have let go, quit, or surrendered.’ There is a difference in the approach to allowing. Allowing in knowingness, in confidence it will work out even better than you had anticipated, facilitates allowing. When allowing is done with an attitude of, ‘Nothing I can do about it anyway; might as well let it go and see where the chips lay,’ puts out an energy of lack of trust in the divine, divine timing, divine order, and your divine self.
“Recognize this. It’s not a judgement. It’s an awareness. Allow in faith and joy and gratitude that things will work out greater than you know to ask.”
So, that’s our advice on “How to allow.”
Let me know what you think.
Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com
Over the course of three channeling sessions, spirit gave us hints on dealing with unpleasant situations by “allowing.”
One person in the group was living in a household of people where no one wanted to do the dishes. Dirty dishes were stacking up and she was becoming aggravated with the person who was supposed to wash them. She asked how to handle this situation. Did she need to do the dishes? If so, the responsible party would never learn responsibility. Did she need to speak up? Should she try to be patient as she watched the mess grow? Spirit told her to “allow” everyone to move at their own pace. Whomever’s responsibility it was, would get tired of dirty dish piles. The longer they sat, the more dishes accumulated. She was reminded that the dishes were not her responsibility and that if she took on that responsibility, she would end up exhausted.
Another participant was taking on a new role at work. She would have to deal with all kinds of people, many of whom had ideas which she didn’t think would work well.
Spirit advised:
“‘Allow all things.’ If you're in this new endeavor and you run into people who have different ideas, you can allow all things. Give it a try. Give them permission to do what they want to do, in the way they want to do it. That may not be sustainable, but as you allow all things, you have no worries. That's the way of peace.”
A few months later, the group gathered again. Members were still working through the idea of “allowing.”
The woman with the dish issue provided this update:
“I have been using the word, ‘allow.’ I allow them to figure it out. Allowing everyone to be on their own path in their own time frame. I had to lower my standards on cleanliness. It’s helping me.”
Another woman had used the word, “allow” when she had run into people at work who had tried her patience. No results yet.
A third woman reported that she had hired the heavens. She can see her project’s outcome, but she is leaving the “how” and the “when” up to Spirit. She realized she couldn’t control the project's workmen.
A fourth woman had found that when she started a project and accomplished as much as she could do in the physical realm, the non-physical things began happening too. She had found a way to start projects and allow Spirit to help complete them.
Was this “allowing” working out? Are we supposed to roll over and allow people to do whatever they want? Then bite our tongues, allow things to happen, and develop ulcers?
No.
We asked Spirit for additional advice and this came through:
“Yes, you ‘allow.’ But allowing does not mean you are overcome or enveloped. Allowing means you allow your divine spiritual essence to come through, to reign, to illumine, to guide you. To empower you to feel victorious, to feel successful, to feel in divine order at all times.
“When you are at that vibration, things cannot help but come together. When you stop yourself in the manifestation process because “It will take energy,” “I’ll wait until I have the money,” “When things show up,” you are doubting and not riding the flow of energy.”
“Allowing” works when we have the highest end goal in mind, we just don’t know how things will work out. Then we add, “And steps that I may not even be aware of, are handled and taken care of.” This allows Spirit to add new, even better dimensions to any project. It's the same process we use for manifestation.
At a third channeling session, we still struggled to allow and to be satisfied with the outcome. Spirit clarified:
“The part which has been challenging for the allowing situation is that there needs to be faith that, ‘If I allow, it will work out’ vs. ‘If I allow, I have let go, quit, or surrendered.’ There is a difference in the approach to allowing. Allowing in knowingness, in confidence it will work out even better than you had anticipated, facilitates allowing. When allowing is done with an attitude of, ‘Nothing I can do about it anyway; might as well let it go and see where the chips lay,’ puts out an energy of lack of trust in the divine, divine timing, divine order, and your divine self.
“Recognize this. It’s not a judgement. It’s an awareness. Allow in faith and joy and gratitude that things will work out greater than you know to ask.”
So, that’s our advice on “How to allow.”
Let me know what you think.
Gail
gail@MyPsychicSearch.com
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