Hanging out on The Other Side
During a channeling event, I asked Spirit: When people don’t get along on Earth and they cross to The Other Side, what happens? Do they have to see each other? Do people change enough that they want to be together or are they allowed to avoid each other?
Spirit answered:
That person came to rub you and you came to rub them. You came to teach them another way and they resisted it to the nines. No right, no wrong. You did your job to the best of your ability and they did theirs to the best of their ability.
You can state, “I don’t want anymore lives with that person, I don’t want any more time with that person. Thank you for the lessons we shared. I’m done.”
When you see them on The Other Side, it is like here in life -- you see what you want to see and you feel what you want to feel. You don’t have to sit and kumbaya with spiritual energies who you don’t enjoy. There is a total freedom of energies, honey. You don’t have to play with your family members just because they were family members.
As a matter-of-fact, Spirit is very precise when saying, “Someone that you feel joy and love with, guides you to The Other Side.” They don’t say, “Family comes and guides you.”