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Thursday, March 30, 2017

A Message from our Recently-Deceased Friend

Announcement: The Mystic Messengers Psychic Fair will be this Sunday, April 2, at the DoubleTree Inn in Tucson, AZ. The Fair runs from 9 a.m. until 4 p.m. I plan to be there.

A Message from our Recently-Deceased Friend

Last Thursday, I wrote about Randy. He was a hard-working, competent, compassionate man who passed in his sleep two weekends ago. He was also a clear channel of information from the other side, having brought through many profound messages over the years.

A week after his passing, our channeling group met. We wondered what might happen. Would Randy come through? Would he have a message for his wife? Would he explain what happened? How long does it take for a soul to cross to the other side, complete its healing transition, then be ready to communicate with people on this side?

Our questions were answered. Randy came through with a poignant message.

Prior to Randy's message, one person channeled a more-general message about death. The message illuminated my understanding and I hope you find it beneficial.


"You have questions about the experience on the other side. Know that the experiences on the other side can be as varied as the experiences on this side. Each creates their own experience in their passing. There are similarities, but there are different ways it can be.

"Know that with your loved one who just passed, because of his energy vibrations, it was smooth and easy. There was no shock. There was no moment of confusion as so many have when they pass on to the other side. He was aware enough, his vibration was high enough, that we could describe it as just ‘slipping over.' His was an easy, easy transition compared to many others that people create.

"The experience of passing is very similar to the experience of life in that belief and expectations are instruments that create the experience that goes with passing. Those who feel fear of death will not have a passage as easy as those who have no fear of death. Those who have the belief system that they haven't been good enough and will go to hell, will find themselves frightened and afraid when they pass to the other side.

"The publicity of ‘You pass, then you step into the bright light and are met by your loved ones on the other side,' is real for many, many people, but not for all. Know that eventually all regain their balance, all find the loving assistance to accept and step into the joy and clarity that is a gift one receives on the other side. How swiftly that gift is given, is greatly dependent on the belief system of the one who passed."

I asked, "Is Randy okay?"

The answer: "Of course he is okay. His consciousness was of such a high vibration that even though he was surprised at his passing, his vibrational frequency immediately locked into the wonder and the joy and the love that can be experienced on the other side."

Later in the session: "Death is not to be feared. It is just another door to walk through in the continuous path to become totally aware of your oneness with Source. Those who can release all that holds them to earth, will find joy, will find light, will find love beyond comprehension on this level, when they pass through the veil."

Following this message, a different person began channeling and Randy's energy came through that person. Randy told us he was fine. He, too, had been surprised at his passing. He had not expected his life to end at this point.

The rest of his message was a loving reassurance to his wife that she could carry forward with all their plans, and that he would be right there supporting her. It was an important message, but too personal to post here. However, there was one thing he said that no one knows about, so we will have to wait and see if it is corroborated.

I am awed by the ability of people to communicate with energies on the other side and bring messages forward for our enlightenment. I am also awed by the messages which come through -- huge reassurances of continuous life which includes travels to the physical world to gain experience.

I am honored, and humbled, to be the one to share this miracle of inter-realm communication with you.


12:45 pm mst

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Seeing people on The Other Side

Quote from a Channeled Message - Seeing People on The Other Side

During a channeling session I ask, "When there are people who we don't get along with and they cross to the other side, then we cross to the other side, and we feel that we don't want to have anything to do with them, what happens on the other side? Do people change enough that they want to be together?"

The answer: "This is wonderful! No, our dear, what happens is that person came to rub you and you came to rub them. You came to teach them another way and they resisted it to the nines. No right, no wrong. You did your job to the best of your ability and they did theirs to the best of their ability.

"You can state, ‘I don't want anymore lives with that person, I don't want any more time with that person. Thank you for the lessons we shared. I'm done.'

"When you see them on the other side, when you feel them on the other side, honey, it is sort of like even here in life, you see what you want to see, and you feel what you want to feel. No, you don't have to sit and kumbaya with all those spiritual energies that you don't enjoy. It is like all the lavenders play with the lavenders. If they want to blend with the yellows, they can blend with the yellows. There is a total freedom of energies. No, you don't have to play with your family members because they were family members.

"As a matter-of-fact, Spirit is very precise when they say, ‘Someone that you feel joy and love with guides you to the other side.' They don't say, ‘Family comes and guides you.' [Laughing.] A lot of people have had some really difficult lives trying to show another way to their family members. In all compassion, they have had some very challenging things to overcome."

Me: "Thank you."

1:24 pm mst

Thursday, March 23, 2017

A Tribute to Randy

A Tribute to Randy

Last Thursday, I wrote about the need to live in the present moment. We never know how long we will be healthy enough to enjoy our adventures. We have no idea how long we will live.

Since then, one of my friends passed away. A youngish guy, maybe around 60? He was an essential member of our channeling group, bringing through a wealth of information. He channeled messages from several non-physical energies. Three weeks ago, he channeled a message from Mother Earth.

Last week, he told us that after 30 years of physical discomfort, his pain was gone. For a reason no one understood, after channeling the message from Mother Earth, his pain had evaporated. He felt better, and had more stamina, than he had experienced in years. Four days after that, he crossed over.

This man was a thoughtful, brilliant, talented, compassionate, hard worker. I don't have the details, but my understanding is that he worked hard around his property Saturday morning, laid on the couch to rest, and passed in his sleep. Not such a bad way to go. No need for illness, surgery, or suffering. Yet, a complete surprise to the rest of us.

When I heard the news, my first thought was, "What is point of being psychic if you can't see something like this coming?" Then I wondered, "Would any of us have wanted to know?" No, I don't think so.

In tribute to Randy, I would like to put into writing a few ideas he shared.

* His mantra, "Everything is working out perfectly. That's how we see it and that's what we experience." He marveled at the speed with which things manifested.

*"Don't worry about getting it all done. You never get it all done."

*"When you slumber at night, your consciousness leaves the body. It is just as easy for the consciousness within the body to leave it, as it is for you to fall asleep. It takes no time whatsoever. It is instantaneous and it is the decision of the soul."

*"Why do people die? Why do people live? So long as you are creating experience, so long as you have a desire to live, to experience, to share, to teach, life force from Source flows through you. When you lose the desire to participate in life, sharing your experiences and creating new experiences for yourself, life force stops flowing through you and you cross over.

"You have many opportunities, many windows, to cross over. It is your Higher Self and, somewhat, your consciousness that dictates how long you live. Some have predetermined dates: you finish your mission or you have a contractual agreement with another individual for balancing their energies, then you exit through a window.

"Life force is vitally important. As you bring that life force through you, your health improves because it allows the cells to express their divinity and to absorb the energies from Source. Don't allow the mind to dictate restrictions on the body. Allow the body to express its divinity. Many individuals strangle the life force right out of their bodies. What do you see? Disease. That is ‘dis-ease.'"

Randy talked about living multiple lives at once. If something happened in this life, the opposite happened in another life. If someone survived a car wreck here, they might have died in the other life. While he passed from this life, he may live in a different life.

Randy channeled:

"All possibilities can be expected. Through your Higher Self, through the various energies of your multi-dimensional being, all possibilities are explored.

"In an accident, you are lucky to survive. Your Higher Self and you, your subconsciousness, experience death and experience ‘lucky to survive, but injured,' and ‘lucky to survive and uninjured.' All of the possibilities in between.

"The realm of possibilities exists because that is what you are here for: to explore, to create, and to experience. You may not remember it in your consciousness at this moment, but your Higher Self has a complete listing of everything that occurred. All situations, all possibilities. There is no limitation. That is a wonderful blessing for every one of you. You do not need to wonder ‘why' or wonder ‘what if,' for as you reconnect with your Higher Self, you will know."

"Our Higher Self can split itself off to actively participate in every single life simultaneously."

So, Randy is gone from this lifetime, but he may be physically alive in another lifetime. What I know for sure is that he is "alive" in the non-physical world. That his soul and his Higher Self are relaxing, recuperating, and reviewing all that occurred in this lifetime. It's a pause. He may choose to reincarnate again, he may decide to remain in the non-physical realm as a teacher for us, or he may make a different choice. As he often reminded us, "The possibilities are limitless."

Thank you, Randy, for everything you shared with us: body, mind, and spirit.


1:08 pm mst

Tuesday, March 21, 2017

We are all One

Quote from a Channeled Message - We are all One

"We are all one" in that we originate from the same Source, the Divine. We are all connected through the Divine. We share life experiences and energy with one another, but we do not have to share with any energy that is at a lower frequency than where we are presently.

If you can, visualize a spider web out in nature which has a great depth to it. In other words, from the top to the center, it would be similar to a funnel. The area around the edges is large, but can be held within view. Visualize this spider web, with dewdrops from the morning mist, so that there are dewdrops adjacent to one another, on every fiber. Each dewdrop reflects that of the other, yet each dewdrop is an individual.

At the present time, until you reconnect with Source, you are individual dewdrops. You reflect to one another the divine within, but you each hold a singular space to experience without the influence of others. Occasionally, through your path, you will coalesce with another and share the energies, the experience. Without that coalescing, the experience of a separate dewdrop does not have a direct affect on you in this experience.


1:28 pm mst

Thursday, March 16, 2017

Live Now

Live Now

Lately, I've heard messages about how we make things more complicated than they need to be. When I started this work, I had endless questions about how psychic ability and spirituality worked. I interviewed psychics. I took classes. I listened to channeled messages. Now, I find it all makes sense. It flows together. It's simple. Once I understood (as best I can understand) the system, I discovered that life really is about enjoying the moment we are in.

After years of study, the advice circled back to what I've always heard: Live in the moment. Have fun. Life is an adventure. Live now.

A week ago, I moved my mother to a "Memory Care" facility. She no longer remembers her life, her husband, or her adventures.

We expect to sit back in our golden years and reminisce about all the fun we had. Maybe we will. Maybe we won't. My point? Later in life, you may not be able to savor the memories. The reason to do something is to wring fun from it right now.

A recent channeling brought this message through: "Think about what you are placing your energy on. If it something you are not interested in, it's a waste. Use that energy to make yourself happy, to make yourself feel good, no matter what it is you are doing. It does not matter [what it is]. Feel good about it. Focus your intention and take control of your life. It's a glorious thing."

"Have fun with it all. Kick up your heels and be a little frisky. We will be right there cheering with you."



11:52 am mst

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Who is that Ghost?
Quote from a Psychic - John Hunter

When my wife had our second baby, we were exhausted.

One night, my wife was up with the baby and my wife fell asleep. When she woke up, she saw an energy being, a ghost, holding the baby and making sure she was okay. Holding her, rocking her. My wife is not into all of this, so it was pretty dramatic. Because she was exhausted, she kind of shrugged, said "okay," and fell back asleep.

The next day, she told me what she had seen. I deal with this quite a bit and I told her it was okay. I asked myself, "Who was this person?" and I got "Grandma." Maybe it was my wife's grandma?

My wife thought it was freaky. She knew it wasn't her grandma, but she didn't say that. She was overwhelmed. I reminded her that I protect our house and that things aren't coming in and out unless they are positive.

A year later, we were visiting my family in Idaho, going through a photo album, and there was a picture of my mom in her late 20s or young 30s. My surprised wife said, "That's the woman who was holding our baby."

That is when I realized my mom was watching over us.

10:37 am mst

Thursday, March 9, 2017

Updating our Blueprint

Updating our Blueprint

We all want to create our life exactly as we desire it. Some parts of our life are designed before incarnation. While in the non-physical realm, we work with Spirit Guides to plan our life experiences. We set up challenges and pleasures. We work with other energies to coordinate our arrival on earth so we can share the experience. We draw up the blueprint for our life.

Once here, we work on our lessons and have our experiences. Sometimes, we want to bring a new aspect into our life. Maybe we want more adventure, or financial security, or love. How can we open a new avenue while on the physical plane? How can we update our blueprint? There are three elements to manifestation: intention, voice, and heartfelt emotion.

Intention. Intention can be positive or negative. With a positive intention, we can think, "I want to expand my role in life" or "I want a bigger, more-fulfilling job." Or, we can create from a negative intention, for example, "I don't like so and so, and I wish them harm." The thing is, our mindset toward the outside world reflects back on us. If we focus on the negative, we see more of the negative. If we wish harm to others, harm comes to us. Instead, we can wish others well on their journey and reflect back well wishes on our journey. Expanding our love towards the outside word, expands the love coming to us. So cool.

Voice. When we have a desire, we should voice this wish aloud. Our voice box produces the sound which gives our wish a physical vibration, allowing it to align with other vibrations on the same frequency. Sometimes when we voice something new, it takes a few tries to get the right words. We can experiment with the wording until we click with the right combination.

Emotion. The third element is our heart, our emotion. When we have a strong emotional connection to our dream, and we use the right words, we power our desire.

Our voice organizes and aligns the masculine energy. Our heart organizes the feminine energy and brings things into physicality. The combination of voicing and feeling opens a communications stream with our Higher Self allowing us to update the experiences we seek. Think of it this way. We have a blueprint for our life. Now, we are modernizing and refining that blueprint, maybe even adding a room.

Sit in meditation, breathe in the white light of universal love, expand your consciousness, talk to your angels and Guides, connect with your heart's desire, then voice it. Focus on your wish and bring it to fruition. Look for evidence of your manifestation. When you find that evidence, express your gratitude. Gratitude signals the universe that you want more of what you just received.

It's a lovely cycle of dreaming, manifesting, and gratitude.

Let me know how this works for you.


12:34 pm mst

Tuesday, March 7, 2017


Quotes from Three Recent Channeled Messages - Simplicity

It is understood that you become distracted as you travel around in your experience. But as you experience this life, is the distraction worth your forgetting who you are? The abilities that you have? Life would be so much easier for you if you sit back and relax and enjoy. Don't complicate your consciousness with minute details.

* * *

To this day, we are still trying to interpret things that are so clear, but we want signs and symbols to give them credence.

* * *

Live your life in joy and love and gratitude. It may sound simple and it really is. Humanity makes it complicated, and there is no need. Love each other. Live in peace.

11:22 am mst

Thursday, March 2, 2017

Past, Present, and Future Lives

Announcement: This Sunday, March 5, the Mystic Messengers Psychic Fair will be held at the Reid Park DoubleTree Inn from 9 AM until 4 PM. I will be there and I hope you will be there too.

Past, Present, and Future Lives

Are you fascinated by the idea that we live multiple lives? We can live hundreds of lives on Earth, and we can also live in other places throughout the galaxy.

Today, I'm sharing new information about past, present, and future lives. During a recent channeling session I asked how past lives influence current lives. I heard that both past and future lives can influence the present. This can occur because we live these lifetimes simultaneously.

This is what I heard:

"If you had drowned by the river in three or four different lives, you would not have a love of rivers. You would shy away from them. Perhaps someone else would say, ‘What a lovely river,' and you would say, ‘Thank you, but I'll pass.' But, if you are on your 600th life, and those experiences were many lives ago, you could now re-affirm the beauty of the river without feeling in any way jeopardized or threatened.

"Past lives, current lives, and future lives, are all coloring the life that you call ‘here and now.' They are all superimposed on this physical vessel which is carrying the memories and the knowledge. This is why if you need to know something from the past, or need to know something now, or need to know something from the future, it is all visual, all apparent, all seen by those who seek. All that has colored your past, and that will color your future, can be seen right now.

"The amount of energy and power which you give to the past and to the future, affects your here and now. We say, ‘Be focused, be centered, be aware of the here and now.' It has its own gifts."

"Live in the here and now because energy can be exhausted worrying about things which may not happen."

I asked, "Do you think we are living multiple lives at the same time? Are we living our future lives right now, while we are here?"

The answer:

"Absolutely. Yes.

"Where you are headed and where you have been, are all one."

Just as experiences earlier in this current life influence the way we think about things now, experiences from previous lifetimes, also affect this lifetime.

A few months ago, I went to a psychic reader and asked her about the challenges my mother and I have faced. She told me that we had lived 80 lives together, and were circling around the same issues. In some lifetimes, I hurt her. In other lifetimes, she hurt me. I think that we are each working with the theme of standing on our own, and not being told what to do. Neither of us will be bullied into doing something we don't want to do.

This lifetime, I had the opportunity to break the cycle, wish her well, and move on. With the psychic's help, I did just that.

Back to the idea of simultaneous lifetimes. I want to add another illustration of how we can live multiple lives at once.

In her book, The Fun of Dying (Greater Reality Publications, 2010), Roberta Grimes writes:

"There is so much evidence for reincarnation that clearly something like it happens. It is a difficult process to understand, however, since time is not objectively real, so somehow all our lives on earth are happening at the same time. Accounts from upper-level beings suggest that we think of reincarnation not as a linear process, but more as a vat from which the bucket of each lifetime is dipped and back into which each lifetime is poured, and that is how I have come to envision reincarnation. But who knows?"

What do you think?


1:33 pm mst

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